Secret of Success

Once, a young man asked Socrates the secret of success. Socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning.They met. Socrates asked the young man to walk with him toward the river.When the water got up to the neck, Socrates took young man by surprise and ducked  him into the water. The boy struggled to get out but Socrates was strong and kept him there until the boy started turning blue.

Socrates pulled his head out of the water and the first thing young man did was to gasp and take a deep of breath.Socrates asked,"What did you want the most when you were there?" The boy replied,"Air". Socrates said. " That's the secret to success. When you want success as badly as you wanted the air, then you will get it. There is no secret."

The motivation to succeed comes from the burning desire to achieve a purpose. Napoleon Hill wrote,"Whenever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve." A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results.

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Live life without regrets..

  Sometime people come into your life & u know right away that they were meant to be there to serve some sort of purpose, teach u a lesson or to help you figure out who u are or who u want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger), but when u lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacle you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. 

Everything happens for a reason. 
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. 
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.... 
The people u meet who affect your life,& the success & downfalls u experience, help to create who u are and who u become. 
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts u, betrays u, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped u learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when u open your heart.
If someone loves u, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love u, but in a way, they are teaching u to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things... 
MAKE EVERYDAY COUNT 
Appreciate every moment and take everything u possibly can for u may never be able to experience it again. 
Talk to people who have never talked to before, and actually listen. 
Hold your head up because u have every right to. 
Tell yourself u are a great individual, and believe in yourself, if u don’t believe in ur self it will be hard for others to believe in you. 
Create your own life & then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets... 


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Achieving Something Called Dream

Learning a new skill is often intimidating at first; knowing where to start, who to listen to, what to ignore - it can be a difficult process to get moving.
You know when you get that sudden urge of that feeling that you should do something with your life unless you want to spend the whole life of yours doing the same boring schedule every day without caring about yours dreams to do something beyond what others have done. The feeling that you dream of how your life would turn the events and gain you name, fame and wealth. Well, these are just the dreams that most of the people keep on dreaming of because they cannot/doesn't dare to follow their dreams, thinking of the hardships and failures they may have to come up with. Some of them think they cannot follow their dreams because it is beyond their boundaries.

These are the common excuses that every person make just to ignore their dreams and ignore what their heart tells them. People are not aware that hard work and failures are the way to success, it is the way to achieving something. People think their dreams are beyond their reach and they fail to take the steps towards their dream without even trying. And yes, that is the main reason why people fail to follow their dreams. It is the root cause for not achieving something that they dream of.

Dreams, they are the things that is always out of our reach unless we extend our hands to them so we can get to it. If they were the things that we usually do, then those thing can't be our dreams. To achieve our dreams we got to rise beyond our boundaries. We got to break that personal, social, religious, cultural beliefs of yours and only then we can do something what we want. Not unless you change the belief that you have of yourself of what you can achieve.

Now, when you are fully ready to risk everything of yours to achieve your dreams, thing starts to get a bit tougher and harder. For starters, it is really difficult to adjust in the way you want, because you have never tried it before. Even though you have the idea and potentiality to achieve something great, it may not work according to what you planned for. As I already told, hardships are always on your way, it may be beyond what you had expected. Also when you risk something you got to invest all your time, money, knowledge and everything other thing you own or have with you. To achieve something you deeply wish for it to happen, you are the sole creator. You are the creator of your own "Destiny".

Just one more tip, whatever you may be planning to achieve, approach it with the understanding that you are going to face many difficulties and troubles. Take steps one by one. Know from whom, where, what and whose ideas and suggestion you can include in your project. Know the right places where you can increase your knowledge and resources.

Best of luck... Follow your dreams from today. There is no better day than today to take a step towards your dream.

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Knowing the small things

Life is awesome. You get to see all the beautiful things the life has to offer.And it is beyond anyone can describe in words. And in the process of living our life, we come across hundreds and thousands of people. Some come in the form of teaching you something valuable in life and leave a wonderful memory. And some of them come in your life and become inseparable from your life.They become the friends for your life.

But,whatever the purpose they may have in your life,you must not forget your meaning of living a life. Everyone has their own definition of living a life. You must learn to honor and respect it.

In everyday life,these incoming,outgoing and staying people of your life having been directly or indirectly serving you. We forget to notice the small things that other people do for us. We won't know it unless they stop doing it, and by that time it could be a little late to regret. learn to appreciate the small things that people do for you in daily life. You can at least let them know that you are thankful for what they have been doing.

And these small things could mean anything. Just giving a huge smile to someone who is having a bad day could make them smile for no reason but just in return to your smile.Just sending someone a simple good morning text,can make their day.You can at least say thank you to someone who has been cleaning your desk everyday,someone who has been doing all the household works, or every other work. Yes, they are doing their jobs,but even though at least you can say thank you. That simple word can make someone feel so much happy, that they encourage themselves to do more better than they did today.

In this 21st century, our lives has been so much complicated we forget the most valuable thing in our life running after the physical happiness. I am writing this article simply just to let us remember who we are and not forget the most important tings in our life. Even if we don't know, most of the people are happy because of us,in an unknowing way,just like we are happy by the work of someone else.The
small things brings huge changes in our life.Always keep people around you happy and smiling. Adore the small things in life and you will always remain happy.

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MOM

Mom-
They are just awesome.They do the most important job in the whole world.Their responsibilities and characters are beyond anyone can describe. They have the mobility to work standing on feet, constantly bending over, constantly exerting themselves. And they are there for us 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days a year without taking a break.They have their food only after serving others.Though they don't have a certificate or degree, they have the skills in medicine, finance, culinary arts, and in a lot more.They work in every chaotic environment just to make us happy giving up their own happiness for the sake of others.They don't have time for vacations,and their work load increases during holidays.And they do all these without any pay.They do the most toughest job in the whole world.Right?!

Moms--- They are just awesome.
Share this post if you love your mom.

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12 Invisible Signs That You’re In Love

Being loved and loving back is a beautiful
feeling. It takes courage to tell that special
someone how you feel about them. There are invisible signs that speak about your feelings of love. Mentioned below is a list of them:

1. They keep your stuff
A pen that doesn’t work, an old t-shirt, or ticket stubs are things that usually people do not keep, especially if they belong to someone else. If someone has kept such things of yours, it means they like to think about you in your absence which is a clear indication towards feelings for you.

2. They always have time for you
Time is a precious thing in today’s world. If someone always has time for you no matter
how tight their schedule is and how busy they
are, it means they consider you special and are
ready to give anything to spend time with you.

3. Their family knows your birthday
If you are getting birthday wishes from the
family members of someone, it means you are
being discussed in their family. Often the
birthday of someone we love becomes a
carnival for us and we get excited to make it
special. Their family members are often
involved in the preparations and that is how
they also remember your birthday.

4. They treat you like a child
We often care very much for those we love. If
someone is reminding you about the
importance of wearing a seatbelt or to eat
avocado to keep your nutrition up, it may mean
they are falling for you. Be cautious when you
approach someone based on this indication.

5. Photos
Photos taken with love are pleasing and loved.
People who love you keep your photos in which
you do not even look good. For them, this badly
focused picture of you is better than a cover
model.

6. You become more charming with them
Because they are falling for you they respond
to your actions and words in an overwhelming
way. This makes you more charming when you
are with them.

7. They forget to eat
They might say “I’m hungry lets grab something,” and when you get it, they forget to
eat while chitchatting with you.

8. They get you gifts
Gifts represent affection and attachment to
someone. If you are getting gifts from someone without any reason it can mean you are more than just a friend to them.

9. You become a business client for them
When you plan something with them they never say things like, “let’s do it next week,” or
sometime later. They immediately open their
calendar and block a slot that suits you.

10. They do things just to catch your eye
We often like to get the attention of the people
we like, some people try a bit too hard to get it,
especially if they are falling for you. This
makes them do unnecessary things just to be
noticed by you.

11. They always reply
We often forward emails and texts to everyone
in our list, however if you just had a reply to a
silly email or text sent by you its a sign that
even your forwards are awesome for someone.

12. Your words have value
People often value the words of their loved
ones. Someone who is falling in love with you
will never put on something that you disliked in
the past and will try to stick to stuff you have praised. Such behavior is enough to know that you are being loved by someone secretly.

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LONG FACE

The horse entered a bar and sat on a table. . . . the bartender asked the horse''man! why the long face?''

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OLD MAN

There was an old man. . . .  and then he died when he was young.. . . . . hahahahaha. . . . isnt that hillarious?:D

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Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward. - Henry Ford

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If money is your hope for independence you will never have it. The only real security that a man will have in this world is a reserve of knowledge, experience, and ability. - Henry Ford

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I believe God is managing affairs and that He doesn't need any advice from me. With God in charge, I believe everything will work out for the best in the end. So what is there to worry about. - Henry Ford

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Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently. - Henry Ford

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Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success. - Henry Ford

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If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. -Steve Jobs

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For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. -Steve Jobs

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Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. -Steve Jobs

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I really had a lot of dreams when I was a kid, and I think a great deal of that grew out of the fact that I had a chance to read a lot.- Bill Gates

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We always overestimate the change that will occur in the next two years and underestimate the change that will occur in the next ten. Don't let yourself be lulled into inaction.- Bill Gates

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Our Love Story

She said,

"Tell him how you feel is what my friends said
So, I picked up the phone.
Called your house,
You answered, I said

      I LOVE YOU

And hung up right after,

The next day, I told you it was a bet from my friend,

But it was partly true , & you didn't answer,

No boy come back which you always do,

Just stood there and walked away."

I said,

"She called my home, I picked up,
She told me she loved me, then hung up,
The next day I was also going to tell,
           I LOVE YOU
But, you said it was a bet from a friend,
I had everything planned,
Every word, But when you said.....
I just had nothing to say,
I just stood there and watched you,
As you broke my heart.

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Shoot for the moon! Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars!

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HEART, MIND AND WHO WE ARE

As unpredictable as it may be, we have decisions to make. Some are easy & others will break your heart, especially when you have to make one with your head, months after your heart has made it. And Yes, the two are different.

Decisions made by the heart tend to be like caution thrown to the wind. They can be overwhelming, confusing, and yes, crazy. The heart has no boundaries. It doesn't know the rules of the society, it's norm and worst of all, it has no sense of timing.

So, thank God for your head popping in the middle with its rationality & becoming the grounding force before thing gets out of hand.When you have to decide like that, the pain can be immense, but, fortunately, the heart will mend & as cliche it may sound.

                                                                   "LIFE GOES ON"
But even though the heart mends, it is never the same. It carries with it a reminder everywhere it goes. For when it decided to throw caution to the wind, it also threw a piece of itself,to be replaced by the treasure recieved because of the decision. It is changed and it has changed forever, but the trick is not to look at it with anger but with love.

When you share yourself with someone, they in turn share themselves with you.& when trust and understanding arises, it becomes deeper and evolves into friendship. Sometimes it fades and becomes a wonderful memory that never disappears. There is always something that will stir that memory to life, a scent, a word, a song......

Once we become part of someone's life, we never leave. Although we may decide to stand alone, it does not tarnish the feelings and yes, we know that it will not be easy and loneliness can be difficult at times, but we have hurdles of our own. That is what makes us who we are.

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DREAMS

Close your eyes, shut your mouth,
Dream a dream, get a shout.
Try to think, fast to sleep,
Dream a dream little bit.

Dream a dream about your friends,
Make them happy till your end.
Dream a dream about yourself,
To be successful in every step.

Dream a dream to your destiny,
Fulfill it today, tomorrow is mystery.
The nearer you reach, the tougher it becomes,
And to my destiny you are always welcome.

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Happiness

Happiness is one of the most simplest thing you can ever find if you know the way. Every people have their own way of defining happiness. To you, You have it in your way, for a player happiness could be winning a gold medal in the  Olympics, to an artist Happiness could mean winning the Oscar award, to a business person happiness could mean being in the list of richest people. Every person has their own way and there is no denying it.
Anyway, you can achieve the happiness you define in your own way. But, The true happiness you want can't be achieved unless you can make happy the people around you. So for the secret recipe of getting happiness in your life is to make the people around you happy. There will be no meaning of happiness if you don't have anyone to share with when you achieve something.
Be happy yourself. Don't keep thinking about something that bothers you. Clean up your mind. Have a fresh start. And don't forget to SMILE. This will make the co-workers around you smile in reply to your smile. And they will realise they have someone or some reason to smile for the rest of the day. And this will make your whole day better. So..... Just keep smiling and be happy.  Make the people around you happy and joyous. See you later..... <3 <3 <3

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